Saturday, 26 July 2014

Nigeria! My mother


My father,
With heart as black as coal
And hard as rock.
A thief with claws for fingers.
Slaying the delicate dreams of his children.
A hen that drinks it's eggs,
Crushes it's chicks rather than guide.

My father,
Often I wonder how blind art thou
My brother's corpses drowning in their blood.
My sister's slowly ripped of their dignity
My mother clouded with depression watching with folded arms

My father,
My hero, now an enemy
Slowly crushing the labor of my ancestors.
A hypocrite stimulating instability.

An advocate of death you are!
You murder my siblings
You murder the light in my mother
You murder the dreams of my sisters
You murder the heart of my brothers
You murder the joy in my family 

Shame!
I refuse to die
The love of my mother lives on
My prayers lives on 

By chimamanda Ngozi adichie



Some of my relatives lived for decades in the North, in Kano and Bornu. They spoke fluent Hausa. (One relative taught me, at the age of eight, to count in Hausa.) They made planned visits to Anambra only a few times a year, at Christmas and to attend weddings and funerals. But sometimes, in the wake of violence, they made unplanned visits. I remember the word ‘Maitatsine’ – to my young ears, it had a striking lyricism – and I remember the influx of relatives who had packed a few bags and fled the killings. What struck me about those hasty returns to the East was that my relatives always went back to the North. Until two years ago when my uncle packed up his life of thirty years in Maiduguri and moved to Awka. He was not going back. This time, he felt, was different.

My uncle’s return illustrates a feeling shared by many Nigerians about Boko Haram: a lack of hope, a lack of confidence in our leadership. We are experiencing what is, apart from the Biafran war, the most violent period in our nation’s existence. Like many Nigerians, I am distressed about the students murdered in their school, about the people whose bodies were spattered in Nyanya, about the girls abducted in Chibok. I am furious that politicians are politicizing what should be a collective Nigerian mourning, a shared Nigerian sadness.

And I find our president’s actions and non-actions unbelievably surreal.

I do not want a president who, weeks after girls are abducted from a school and days after brave Nigerians have taken to the streets to protest the abductions, merely announces a fact-finding committee to find the girls.

I want President Jonathan to be consumed, utterly consumed, by the state of insecurity in Nigeria. I want him to make security a priority, and make it seem like a priority. I want a president consumed by the urgency of now, who rejects the false idea of keeping up appearances while the country is mired in terror and uncertainty. I want President Jonathan to know – and let Nigerians know that he knows – that we are not made safer by soldiers checking the boots of cars, that to shut down Abuja in order to hold a World Economic Forum is proof of just how deeply insecure the country is. We have a big problem, and I want the president to act as if we do. I want the president to slice through the muddle of bureaucracy, the morass of ‘how things are done,’ because Boko Haram is unusual and the response to it cannot be business as usual.

I want President Jonathan to communicate with the Nigerian people, to realize that leadership has a strong psychological component: in the face of silence or incoherence, people lose faith. I want him to humanize the lost and the missing, to insist that their individual stories be told, to show that every Nigerian life is precious in the eyes of the Nigerian state.

I want the president to seek new ideas, to act, make decisions, publish the security budget spending, offer incentives, sack people. I want the president to be angrily heartbroken about the murder of so many, to lie sleepless in bed thinking of yet what else can be done, to support and equip the armed forces and the police, but also to insist on humaneness in the midst of terror. I want the president to be equally enraged by soldiers who commit murder, by policemen who beat bomb survivors and mourners. I want the president to stop issuing limp, belated announcements through public officials, to insist on a televised apology from whoever is responsible for lying to Nigerians about the girls having been rescued.

I want President Jonathan to ignore his opponents, to remember that it is the nature of politics, to refuse to respond with defensiveness or guardedness, and to remember that Nigerians are understandably cynical about their government.

I want President Jonathan to seek glory and a place in history, instead of longevity in office. I want him to put aside the forthcoming 2015 elections, and focus today on being the kind of leader Nigeria has never had.

I do not care where the president of Nigeria comes from. Even those Nigerians who focus on ‘where the president is from’ will be won over if they are confronted with good leadership that makes all Nigerians feel included. I have always wanted, as my president, a man or a woman who is intelligent and honest and bold, who is surrounded by truth-telling, competent advisers, whose policies are people-centered, and who wants to lead, who wants to be president, but does not need to – or have to- be president at all costs.

President Jonathan may not fit that bill, but he can approximate it: by being the leader Nigerians desperately need now.

- Chimamanda Adichie is the award winning author of Half of a Yellow Sun, Purple Hibiscus, The Thing Around Your Neck and Americanah

Sunday, 13 July 2014

Stand up for peace!

       Here is the truth, the blame game is a very terrible idea at this point in time. I mean, even if the fingers point at the actual person or people at fault, it wouldn't change the past; it certainly will not correct the present and will most certainly ruine the future.
       You find things like 'the north refused to debate for independence', 'the civil war must be revenged', 'the various coups that led to the murder of dignitaries is the problem', 'no, goodluck caused instability in Nigeria', 'it can be traced to obasanjo', 'or IBB'... Seriously what solutions do all of these offer?
       It is good to know your history, know where things went wrong and try to correct them. The blame game will only result it chaos. People are hungry, suffering and dying. Do you really want the separation at this point? If you were one of the Chibok girls, their parents, a victim in Jos, Abuja, Kano, yobe, etc. how would you feel if your fellow country men not only don't show sympathy but don't care an atom about you?
       There are so many people that are greedy, careless, selfish, heartless, worthless, it just goes on and on. But would you just take your actions based on these people? What about those who sleep under the bridge in Lagos; the widowed mother of 5 in Enugu; the crippled almajiri in Kano, the father whose only source of income(taxi) got destroyed in Abuja; the orphan with cancer in Asaba; the girls in Sambisa forest? These are people worth fighting for. People whose voices are not heard.
       So i say if you must argue, argue for unity in diversity, speak for your poor countrymen who have been oppressed for decades. If you must speak, speak for peace.

Monday, 30 June 2014

How to cultivate peacebleness and homogeneousness in Nigeria

Just as necessity is the mother of invention, so is ambition the mother of achievement and the father of both of them is opportunity.I am elated to be given this oppurtunity through a medium that almost everyone depend on.....Nigerians have seen enough to know that it is not somebody’s “tribe and tongue” that matters but what they have to offer. If a leader is doing well in office, Nigerians hardly discuss the sectional issues. I know in my heart of heart that what Nigeria needs is a leader that can make things happen – the real issue is not North or South, man or woman, Ijaw or Fulani. We know this very well. We only pretend not to know because of political sentiments.
The maintenance of peace in the multi-ethnic and multi-religious country of Nigeria is very vital to its development..........With more than 250 ethnic tribes and various religious beliefs divided across geo-political lines - of Muslim North and Christian South,the nation's unity is being woefully threatened by ethnocentricism, sentiments and religious fanaticism. Recently, religious radicalism has exploded in the Northern part of the country causing more harm and hatred among the overall Nigerians. Following are some tips on how to maintain unity in Nigeria:Sentiments Must Be Stopped as
Sentiment is one of the major problems that are threatening the cause of unity and harmony in Nigeria. The war of words and tribal feuds are been squabbled by Nigerians all over the country. We must stop making sweeping generalization on other ethnic tribes, and begin to reserve our emotions toward other ethnic groupings if peace and unity must reign in Nigeria.Love should be the bedrock of peace and oneness in a multi-cultural nation like Nigeria. Nigerians of every race, gender, and religion should love and respect each other as one family. We should learn to love our fellow countrymen. If we're challenged by a problem, we should round ourselves on a negotiating table and not to dwell in finger-pointing and wicked sentiments. If we love and adore ourselves as Nigerians, peace and unity will forever thrive in our country.Thirdly Sense of Brotherhood which is a very important and vital factor not only in maintaining unity in Nigeria, but in upholding peace and tranquility among Nigerians. Nigerians should regard all and sundry as one. Parents at home and teachers in school should orient the kids about the importance of equality. Let the Nigerian people know that they belong to one family. The notion of "we" vs. "them" must be stopped for Nigeria to stay stronger, safer and more united.Fourthly All Nigerians must Lock their Religions in the Closet,Religion is a good thing, but its practice. should be private -- only between you and your God on whom you believe. Its practice should be within the confines of your church or mosque; your home and your family. We should learn to leave our religion at our homes and not try to carry it along and enforce it in our public square.Fifthly,To maintain peace and unity in Nigeria, massive enlightenment must ensued. The Federal Government must step-in to enlighten the general public, especially the ignorant and illiterate population about unity and peaceful co-existence among the citizenry, with the central theme of equality and oneness. This can be relayed through the channels of media so as to reach the mass population.

Nigeria was built on the foundations of tolerance and solidarity. As Nigerians, we should uphold the Nigerian dream of unity in diversity and stay strong, peaceful, and united despite the bitter challenges that are facing us today.Diversity is not about how we differ but It is about embracing one another’s uniqueness.The future of this vast country of Nigeria must depend on the efforts of ourselves to help ourselves. This we cannot do if we are not working together in unity. Indeed unity today is our greatest concern and it is the duty of everyone of us to work to strengthen it. Bitterness due to political,religious and tribal differences will carry Nigeria nowhere and I appeal to all political leaders,islamic leaders and traditional rulers throughout the country to try to control their extremists. Nigeria is large enough to accommodate us all in spite of our differences.

Friday, 27 June 2014

Football: Uniting us as one Nigeria


The World Cup is an event that unites entire populations. For a month, we put aside our differences politically, socially, religiously, culturally, and we forget about our judgments of people who root for one political party, social group, religion, culture, language, with the ones we root for. For one month, we throw on our jerseys, flags and colors of our country and unite as one giant support system for those 11 men on the field. Strange, but when there’s national pride for your country at stake on the world stage, you set aside your differences and become one.


As our first game was being played against Iran, four years of anticipation of the World’s biggest tournament culminated with the realization that, no matter how much you follow or enjoy other sports, there is nothing that can be compared to the magnitude of the impact football has on Nigerians, and it’s about more than just the game; it’s about more than just culture, it’s about passion and love for your country, your history, pride in who you are and where in the world you hail from. And whenever the Super eagles are on the pitch, they unite us all as one Nigeria, there is no Hausa, Igbo, Yoruba or any other tribe, there is no Christian, Muslim or any other religion, there is no PDP, APC or any political party, there is only one Nigeria. 


Football brings Nigerians together to share a common interest and celebrate the country they hail from. It’s a reason to shout our country’s name, belt out our National Anthem (which is the best in the world) with pride, and take on an “it’s us against the world” mentality. And while only one team can win, everyone takes away something special from watching the game, none more obvious than we can live and coexist together as one country without any hindrance or socio-political barriers not only for the ninety minutes of the game, but forever. If that doesn’t sum up what the football can do to bring Nigerians together, there is no other way to describe how important of an event this world cup has been in making us realize despite the insurgencies, the differences, the disputes we proudly unite as a Nation.
                                      By Mubasheer 

Tuesday, 24 June 2014

Religion, Politics & Nigeria's National Unity By Paul I. Adujie Lawcareer2007@aol.com New York, United States

All human lives are sacred. Nigerian lives, are especially sacred to me. This means that the taking of a life, a Nigerian life, by anyone, is the ultimate heresy, the ultimate blasphemy and the most egregious sacrilege! A Nigerian taking the live of another Nigerian, is the most unpardonable blasphemy, heresy and most damnable sacrilege!

 

What then could possess any Nigerian to kill another Nigerian? Why do we kill ourselves in the name of any religions? Or in the name of cults or shrines? Speaking for myself, personally, I find the fact that I am a Nigerian worth all the celebrations in the world! I am bashful in my Nigerian-ness, it is for me, actually stronger than any form of  organized religions, or any of the usual formal religions. It is stronger than any faiths, cults or shrines!

 

 Nigerians have been proclaimed as the most religious people on earth! But what is Nigeria's benefit in this? How be it that Nigerians are feverishly religious, some Nigerians are quick to display their passion, their fervor, emotional and emotive reactions to religious issues and debates? Some Nigerians are even known to display such emotive expressions and tones, about religious matters, bearing on the irrational and fanatical.

 

Some Nigerians are known to gyrate so ferociously about religious matters, and yet, they would not do the same for Nigeria's national interests? They would not show similar or identical fervors and passions regarding the protection and preservation of Nigeria's national unity! But why?

 

Nigeria is unarguably permeated with high rate of crime and insecurity, there are reports of armed robberies, there are these cases of intractable corruption phenomenon, there are cases of 419ers that have given Nigeria a public relations black eye on the world stage.
Where then, are the majority of Nigerians who are very deeply religious people? Where then is their positive influences on public morality and public policies?

 

Are some of them faithless in their ostentatious claims of religiosities and moral certitudes? Is what we have then, merely, proclamations without practice of norms?

 

Some Nigerians kill other Nigerians because of religious fervor and religious fanaticism? And, I surely have no patience for any Nigerian that would kill another Nigerian, for religious “reasons†more like religious unreason!

 

How can anyone or I, reconcile religious fervors and passions that are frequently on display by Nigerians, with unthinking killing or murder of fellow Nigerians in the name of any religion? Isn't that like loudly proclaiming your virginity, while carrying visible pregnancy?

 

I do not know of any holy book, that encourages crime or immorality. All religions seem to have obvious auto response in the advocacies of moral and ethical life styles for its adherents. So, one may rightly ask, from which populace do corrupt Nigerians come? Would a good Christian, a good Muslim, give a wink and a nod to crook? 419er or looter?
I would hope not! How then does any true Christian, true Muslim, explain our malaises?

 

Nigeria's national unity is crucial for our national development. Just as crucial as the elimination of corruption. I constantly therefore get very impatient with issues that separate us as a people of one national citizenship.

 

I have always wondered, what it would take to create a stronger and indivisible bond between all citizens of Nigeria. Would a foreign war do the trick? During the schism between Nigeria and Cameroon over Bakassi Peninsula, I wanted Nigeria to prevail in the dispute with Cameroon over that territory. At some point, I wondered whether a war, as undesirable as wars are, I wondered whether a war by Nigeria with Cameroon over Bakkassi Peninsula would have spurred Nigerians to love Nigeria and each other more?

 

My rationale or reasoning was that, Nigerians and Nigeria, faced with an external enemy, may actually, forget and jettison petty squabbling between Nigerians, based on the politics of religion, region and ethnicities. I have always wondered, whether facing a national catastrophe, national disaster or cataclysm of immense proportions, could stimulate our sense of oneness, nationalism and patriotism.

 

Nigerians in my experience, have in the past been united by grief, tragedies and catastrophes. I remember how Nigerians from every conceivable religion, region and ethnic backgrounds, rallied and united in sympathies and commiserations with fellow Nigerians in Bakolori, Sokoto State, as Bakolori farmers, during President Shagari's administration, had become victims of government's forceful actions, against these Nigerian farmers who had resisted the confiscation of their lands for a federal project

 

It will also be recalled, how our nation rallied in sympathies and mournfulness, in support of victims of Ogunpa River, when it had overflowed and breached its banks, killing scores, and damaging properties extensively. Nigerians mourned as Ogunpa River breached it and flooded communities, killing many Nigerians in scores, Nigerians were united.

 

The same can be said of Nigerians reaction recently, during the President Obasanjo administration, when the federal government exercised it's strong arm and might, in dealing with situations in Odi, then Zaki Biam etc, the government received robust criticisms from a welter of Nigerian critics, who rallied to support, the recipients of government tough stance policies.

 

National unity, has also been exemplified and replayed, after every successive air disasters and successive defeats at international soccer games, even though is dirges, but united, nevertheless! 

 

These assertions that I make, are not so, because I want to be flippant or careless. Instead, these assertions arises from my keen observations of Nigerians over an extended period of time. I have for instance observed that Nigerians tend to bandy together when there are crises, crises that affect us Nigerians as a collective in interests and aspirations.

 

Imagine the wonderful Nigeria that would result, if Nigerians, all focus on a common purpose? As opposed, to, parochial, limited and shortsighted divisive purposes?

 

These observations that I have made, have led me to conclude that a great number of Nigerians seem to owe unflinching and unalloyed allegiance to their religion, and then ethnicity, and region, in that order.

 

I have observed how frequently, Nigerians have reacted with extraordinary strong emotions and opinions, to matters Nigerian, in particular, issues that have religious undertones and flavor. But why does parochial matter have the advantage, over national issues and national interests?

 

Similarly, Nigerians are quick to jump and leap, in defense of their ethnicity or region, when matters affecting such geographical affinity, to some Nigerians, you would see ferocity, vehemence and audacious reactions in defense of, in retaliations against perceived targets or opponents or proponents.

 

If a Nigerian writes an article, for instance, about how Nigeria can harness the immense benefits of modern technology and its information superhighways, or how Nigeria could place Nigerian scientists on the surface of the moon, in say, ten years, or if anyone bash Nigeria, the response would be assuredly, tepid and terse, spiced with snickers of laughter and jest, at the writer's dare at such positive audacities!

 

Conversely, if anyone writes about a particular religion, or shrine in the East-North-West-Central and in-between of Nigeria's geographical land-space, or if anyone writes about the Christianity or Islam, assuredly too, there will most probably be, a ferocities of flurry of responses. There will be a deluge of attacks. As well as a flood of threats of sanctions and harms to the writer.

 

Before I became a semi retired Catholic, I left the Catholic church and joined a semi Catholic church, Marble Collegiate church in midtown Manhattan in New York City. This church is where the late Dr. Norman Vincent Peale, the author of the famous book, “The Power of Positive Thinking†He held court as an all inclusive congregation preacher reverend, he preached as the resident Bishop for over fifty years, until his death at 93 years of age as the head of this Dutch-Reformed, Catholic without the guilt-church.

 

At Marble Collegiate church, the practice of religion is liberal, very liberally inclusive. It regularly, invited Imams of Islam, Rabbis of Judaism, animated Pastors of Pentecostal, as well as Baptist churches, and, Gay and Lesbian ministers to preach regularly, at Marble!

 

Marble Collegiate church in my view therefore, practice tolerance, practice diversities par excellence, in doing so, it weaved a true unity of fabrics of its congregants into a spiritual cloth for members of the congregation, irrespective of their race, nationalities, religious backgrounds and leanings, and sexual orientation. The choir leader of Marble at a time, was a hired Jewish female Rabbi equivalent.

 

This Marble Collegiate analogy, is just the same way, in my opinion at least, that Nigerians can weave the different and very wondrously diverse fabrics of our Nigerian-ness, into a national unity cloth, for the benefits of all Nigerians

 

If I have my way, I would convince Nigerians to reverse the order above, in which religion, region and ethnicities, as parochial as they are, are however put over and above, as priority, against Nigeriaâ€کs national interests! Nigerians should love Nigeria first and foremost, then love hometowns and region, then religion and other things. But Nigeria first and foremost and all other things, as the biblical injunctions say, all other things will be added to Nigerians and Nigeria.

 

I was opposed to sovereign national conference, I remain opposed.
I have been called various unflattering names for believing unflinchingly, in one, indivisible Nigeria.

 


Reference: Please also see related materials
1. Why Must We Kill Ourselves? 
2. Nigerian Citizenship Should Be Redefined 
3.  This is: A Moral Issue, a National Issue, an Election Issue! 

Thursday, 12 June 2014

ASIAN HUMPTY DUMPTY

       I met a Chinese man in school today. As usual, our nationalities became the subject of discussion. "Nigeria! My president was there about a month ago" he said.
"Yes! World economic forum" I replied.
"Who does he think he is? He goes to Nigeria and gains a large share of the Nigerian import market". 
Na so I just dey look this chinco. With a smile on my face of course but the expression was different in my head.
"China invests in Sierra Leone and they call us the bad guys. They need investors" he said.
Now all I could say was " you know when you succeed in life, you have people that are envious of you. So they will say and do anything to bring you down." I know. I know. I had nothing else to say.
      I could imagine his head expanding with pride as he boasts of his country's achievements. Now I would boast about Nigeria but I got nothing. It was then I realised that the only things I ever brag  about are the 250 ethnic groups, geographical size, population, food, dressing, festivals, etc. I would talk about our natural resources but then I would have to explain things like how we have crude oil but import petrol, etc.
       I could keep praising china or find a way to brag about my country's diversity. Luckily he asked if I am from the north or south (this is it! My chance!). 
"I'm from the north."
"Are you hausa?" He asked.
"No. Nupe." I replied. Keep in mind that this man already told me that he speaks English obviously, Arabic and Spanish I think. In addition to Chinese.
So I told him that I speak Hausa, Igbo, Yoruba, Fulani, Igala, Kanuri and about 3 more languages. Before you think of me as a liar, you should know that I know a few words from some of these languages; so it's not entirely a lie. I would log on "bellanaijaweddings" to show off our beautiful brides and dressing but that would be off point.
       In a nutshell, all I'm trying to say is that our diversity is something no one can take away from us. Not the selfish government, not  boko haram and like my president pointed out earlier, even America knows this. These things might seem so little but right now it's all we've got. And even when other things come along be it good or bad we will still have our traditional food, our songs and dance, our culture, our pride.  We will always have Nigeria.